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Melangell Angharad's avatar

The winter here has been cold and miserable too, and we were under a freezing fog for over a week at the end of December. But I conjured up the energy to join the choir for practice this evening and now I'm glowing with the joy of sharing song in person with others. There's something extremely grounding about an in-person discussion with a some Yorkshire pensioners (I'm the youngest person in the choir by some years!); it shows up the frenzied nature of a lot of online discourse.

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What you say about concepts losing their attachment to real things reminds me of an old essay by Freddie deBoer where he refers to this (in the specific context of criticisms, and what we'd now call cancelling) as "critique drift." I like that phrase because I think the word "drift" emphasizes how it's a thing that happens while you're not paying too much attention. You can intuitively start saying "but what about this argument" and "but that's white men stuff," and eventually you just habitually say it without thinking as precisely about why you're saying it. And if you get approval every time, the drift happens even more easily.

In my opinion, a lot of people are aware somehow in their bones that the drift is happening... they're somehow feeling discomfort about it, about their lack of confidence in the things they're saying. They say things and no longer feel in touch with the meaning of what they're saying, and that doesn't feel good. But the way they respond to that discomfort, in my opinion, is to turn it outward and tell other people that they are doing things wrong.

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